By using this site, you agree to the Privacy Policy and Terms of Use.
Accept
Gossips24.comGossips24.comGossips24.com
  • HOME
  • GENERAL NEWS
  • BBNAIJA
  • ENTERTAINMENT
  • NAIJA GOSSIPS
  • INTERNATIONAL
  • LIFESTYLE
Notification Show More
Font ResizerAa
Gossips24.comGossips24.com
Font ResizerAa
  • HOME
  • GENERAL NEWS
  • BBNAIJA
  • ENTERTAINMENT
  • NAIJA GOSSIPS
  • INTERNATIONAL
  • LIFESTYLE
Follow US
Home » Only Aimless, Foolish And Useless Men Go After Girls – Counselor Adofoli
Entertainment

Only Aimless, Foolish And Useless Men Go After Girls – Counselor Adofoli

Clement Asamoah
Last updated: March 8, 2019 10:01 am
By Clement Asamoah
Share
5 Min Read
Frank Edem Adofoli
Frank Edem Adofoli
SHARE

Men who have vision and are focused in life are those every woman will love to spend her life with and therefore will go extra mile to win the love of such a person, according to renowned marriage counselor Motivator, Speaker, Author and Entrepreneur, Frank Edem Adofoli.

The reverse however is men who have no ambition in life, have lost morals, self-respect and self-worth who go chasing girls, deceive and convince them in order to win their love because they have nothing to offer.

Counselor Adofoli explains that the reason why many boys are chasing girls today is because of they lack the ingredients that will attract the girls to them and that they have what the women need, they need to beg, convince or deceive the ladies.

Read the full text below;

The mature learns to walk away from people and situations that threaten their success in life, peace of mind, values, morals, self-respect and self-worth. But the story is different when it comes to boys. Instead of them following their dreams and goals in life, most either divert in exchange for girls or try to add girls to it. Some are successful in getting the girl but unsuccessful with their goal and eventually they lose the girl as well.

Ladies follow a man with goals, a man who has something to show for their direction in life, not a man who has none. The reason why many boys are chasing girls today is because of that. If you have what the woman needs, you don’t need to beg, convince or deceive her.

If guys understand that a woman is looking for a man with goals and will stop chasing them but rather chase their goals, then one day, these ladies will follow them. A woman cannot follow a man who has nowhere going in life. A woman cannot follow a man who has no roof over their head, a woman cannot follow a man who has no job, a woman cannot follow a man who is struggling to stand on his feet.

Here we have boys in school who were chasing their goals but decided to put that on hold and rather go chasing ladies. Some combine their academic work with chasing girls and at the end of their course they come out average when they had all it takes to hold a first class degree. Due to that, they don’t end up in their dream job and position.

Today, lots of guys who have re-sits to write in various schools as a result of girls they were following. The time they were supposed to devote or dedicate to their studies, they spent it having fun or chasing ladies.

The little resources that you had to invest into your dreams or future you decided to waste it as feeding fee to a girlfriend. The money for the business, you used it to impress a girlfriend, when asked, you claim you were investing in a wife to be.

When it was time to marry her, she claimed you were not her class, not her type, and you don’t have A,B,C. She is telling you the bitter truth. You are not the right person for her, you don’t have any goal of your own. You are stagnant at one place and she can’t follow you. Don’t be mad, cursing her. Don’t go crazy calling her names.

Young man, she is right. It is you who has been foolish all this while. Stop threatening the suitors who come her way. You are just a boyfriend, a boy who decided to waste your resources on her. Admit you don’t have what it takes to keep her, let her go in peace and not in pieces.

Chasing girls could be seen as easy and fun because you are adventurous and full of energy , a simple hello could start a relationship now but I can assure you, it will end up in a complicated goodbye if you don’t have what it takes to keep her.

In conclusion “Take a lesson from the ants, you lazy fellow. Learn from their ways and be wise!” – Proverbs 6:6 (TLB).

Share This Article
Facebook Twitter Copy Link Print
By Clement Asamoah
Follow:
Clement Asamoah Yeboah is a Ghanaian Blogger, Podcaster, YouTuber & E-commerce enthusiast. I love to read, write, talk and record videos. He gained prominence among bloggers in Ghana after promoting BET Nominee Kwesi Arthur in 2017 to win the VGMAs and also head for the Black Entertainment Awards. Clement has been nominated and awarded by Avance Media twice among the Top 50 Bloggers In Ghana. Connect with me on Instagram @_justclement CONTACT: [email protected]
Leave a comment Leave a comment

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Read more
FULL LIST of Ashawo Joints In Accra And Their Prices

Though prostitution is somehow illegal in Ghana, a lot of Ghanaians including…

The Secrets Behind Making Money Online As A Blogger

I will like to believe that I need no introduction at this…

“NSS will start paying delayed allowances today” – Deputy Executive Director of NSS to personnel

With five days away from the festive season, the cry of 2019-2020…

You Might Also Like

EntertainmentNews

‘I will reward anyone who will share my digital music links this year with a brand new Range Rover’ – Shatta Wale promises

By Israel Boafo Bansah
Entertainment

Rapper, Nana Essel finally arrested for defrauding his girlfriend

By Israel Boafo
Lydia Forson
Entertainment

I will twerk my ass and still be invited to speak at the UN- assembly – Lydia Forson to haters

By Clement Asamoah
Shatta Wale, Loud In Bukom 2019, Loud in Bukom,
Entertainment

Shatta Wale Makes History At 2019 Loud In Bukom Concert, Performs Over 109 Songs (full video)

By Clement Asamoah
Facebook Twitter Youtube Instagram
Company
  • About Gossips24
  • Contact Us
  • Privacy Policy
Quick Links
  • BBNaija
  • Movies
  • Mp3 Download
  • Music Lyrics
Editor's Pick
  • Trivia
  • Sports
  • Trends
  • Information
General News
  • Business
  • Crime
  • Elections
  • Politics
Lifestyle
  • Tech
  • health
  • Events
  • Facts And Tips

2024 © Gossips24 | All Rights Reserved | Powered by Gossips24 LTD

Welcome Back!

Sign in to your account

Username or Email Address
Password

Lost your password?