A controversial self styled Ghanaian actress, Moesha Buduong has hit social media again with a longish lecture to her fans. Assuming the posture of a counselor this time round, Moesha seem to be giving lectures on how to deal with people.
with her usual resort to Instagram to make her point, she narrated some experiences in her life and used same as a point in driving home her advice to her followers.
In a rather emotional tone, she wrote “A lot happens in life and you need to understand that ‘not everyone that is in your life wishes you well.’ There’s several lessons that one learns as we go through this journey called life. We all have our different paths we follow, different experiences come together to mould us into what it is we become, in all these, you have a choice to decide how each and every lesson, experience, difficulty, heartbreak, etc affects you,” .
Further, the social media influencer noted that in the journey of life, losing and gaining friends at some point is inevitable. she narrated how she has lost some close friends but has been able to move on to make a life for herself.
Stating that she has learnt a lot from life, Moesha wrote “You see, the woman I am today is not the same woman I was yesterday. All this has taught me one thing: That we grow. You may not see this growth, but trust me it is happening. In this short life I have lived so far, lost those I once called “friend” and those I once thought I would never lose. But that is all part of the growth process. The things you sometimes hear your so-called friends say about you is sometimes more than enough to break your heart, to get you into depression, to make you feel terrible,” .
she continued with words of encouragement on how the future looks bright and is a plain slate for everyone. “My darling, I am here today to let you know that the pain you feel today will not matter tomorrow. Forgive, smile, believe, love and above all pray. You will meet people that will cheer you on as well as those who will do anything possible to tear you down …they are those that will defend you without having to meet you and there are those that will do anything possible to make you look bad .But that my dear is okay ,it’s the circle of life,” .
in a sharp disdain for moral and ethical busy bodies who try to direct the lives of others, she wrote “allow anyone to put you in a box with their pointing fingers” but rather “show the world what the world needs to see and keep to yourself what you want to keep private .There is no Person that is perfect ,and just because you sin differently from me does not make you better than me.” she finally concluded.
Moesha Budong who made headlines internationally by stating on BBC in April 2018 that hard economy made her follow married men has received both appraisal for her courage and truthfulness and disdain and hatred from others for what they claim to be an indecent talk on a public platform.
