A promising Nigerian young man whose girlfriend’s successive pressure on him to marry her has left him in a state of dilemma has taken to his Twitter page to seek for counsel from his followers and follow tweeps on the micro-blogging platform
According to this young man who is obviously not ready to settle down, he earns N45,000 (which is almost ₵700) per month, which is clearly not fit to cater for a home or a family.
“My GF and I have been dragging this marriage matter for 7 months now. She says I’m not serious and I don’t want to marry her. I’ve been trying my best. I work for a delivery company and my salary is N45,000. My GF wants us to marry by January, 2021.
Currently I’m living with my brother because my office is close to his place. If I move out and marry, how do I start a family with 45K and get my own place. My GF does not have a job. She wants to start make up business.
Should I marry her or break up because she said she can not enter 2021 single. I am under so much pressure. I am losing weight currently. I don’t even know how I will pay her bride price if I agree.”
Should he proceed to marry his girlfriend or wait till he lands another job which pays well?
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